Mamma Zerle's Bloggy

 Die afgelope paar dae was maar bietjie rof ...... Is in die kantoor tot vrydag en ja love ons team  My werks maatjies kna my altyd laat lag no matter what. Persoonlike lewe maar rof meisiekind se hart is gebreek , Seun druk besig om te ofen vir stoei so ja manlief en ek lief vir mekaar soos altyd , maar kry ook min tyd maar vrydag aand is date night en dan kan ons biejti emekaar geniet. Kinders moet maar ook deur hart breek gaan dit is deel van die lewe as ek net dit kon voorkom maar ek kan nie en dit is dalk goed anders sal kinders nooit groei nie en hulle moet groei om excellent groot mense te kan word . Ek is baie trots op hoie sy met dit deal maar ek weet binne haar hart is dit maar baie rou , maar dit sal weer gesond word met tyd . Tyd is al wat nodig is ... pappa gaan more kiddies bietjie uitneem vir lunch so dit gaan hulle enjoy terwyl mamma werk maar die naweek moet ons gaan na pragtige klein dogtertjie se verjaardag toe en ook na 'n gender reveal toe ,... baie opgewonde e

  What is meant by self-growth? Simply stated, self-growth is  a desire to become a better version of oneself every day . A timeless pursuit, self- growth refers to a life-long process to improve one's own performance through formal and informal approaches. So this is what google says about self -growth my version a little bit different........ Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are every day to have woken up.  Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your effort into developing it.  Commit to the goals you set and never look back.  Fail forward.  Learn from every mistake you make.  Don't ever give up - if you fail at least you have learnt .  Don't be afraid to be different, be afraid to have never tried .Its ok to not know everything i learn everyday. At the end of the day be yourself and only yourself do not pretend to be something or someone else or to please someone else. Love yourself for being

  So a few months ago i started something i call "weekly check-ins by Jeannette" . I do a personalized voice note on what's-up on a Monday - note every Monday even thou i am not feeling well , i need to make sure everybody i am check-in on is ok . I do a check-in on 92 people (and it is growing i started off with 5 people) every Monday and i know everyone's "life stories" kids names what is happening why they are sad and if i can do anything to give them advice every week and that they know there is someone listening , sometimes that is all you need is someone to listen. I don't share anyone's problems or stories with any other person accept myself as that is why it is call check-in by Jeannette, and I keep it confidential . I try my best to give the best advice to my ability and I know I have made a big difference in all the 92 people lives as if i don't do the check-ins normal times then some will what-up me and ask if I am ok and that means th

 Herfs is een van die seisoene wat eintlik vir my die mooiste is . Die blare verander van groen na die mooiste bruine en rooi en die wind waai .... Baie mense dink dit is die lelikste of ergste seisoen maar eintlik is die seisoen maar baie soos wat die lewe is .... Die lewe waai partykeer mens se wind uit en dan vind jy jouself weer en ander mense verander soos verkleurmannetjies soos die blare kleur verander ....hulle word stiller of hulle verdwyn net soos die blare verdwyn en val op die grond om nog nuwe kunsmis te maak op die grond vir die nuwe plante en boompies om te groei. Voeltjies vlieg partykeer weg en kom altyd terug na herfs... in ons yard bly die voeljies heel jaar ons gee vir hul kossies en water sodat hul nie nodig het om te gaan soek vir dit nie , maar ook so gebeur dit met mense ook gaan soek nuwer dinge daar buite as hul nie genoeg "kossies en water" kry nie . So as jy jouself in jou "Herfs" vind kyk rond en maak seker jy kry genoeg van die kossies

 Helllo there peeps  I have not blogged in a while so many things has happened. I struggled to get into this blog of mine o my goodness. So my subject ... Spring cleaning for life .... You get different things to spring clean you get your handbag your house and you can also spring clean your life your pc ect. So let me explain to you what i have been spring cleaning .....and how i got to this as my daughter Jody has been spring cleaning her bedroom for weeks now , but so scared to let some of the things go as she says i had this since i was small ... and all i said to her was, is it bringing you joy right now ? is it serving a purpose in your life and if it does keep it if it does not, give it away so it can bring joy to someone else , so that is how i got to were i am .... spring cleaning . I have been spring cleaning my life , i have been going thru what i think a lot of people go thru and that is to get rid of or give away and not to keep on holding on to something .... that is not