Mamma Zerle's Bloggy

Went to a very informative seminar last night ... Guest speaker was Mr Derek Jackson very awesome man he knows what he talks about . So the main aim of this seminar was to find out why boys are so difficult, and this is what the conclusions was .... Boys are from Mars and girls are from Venus. you must not try and protect your kids and close them off in a "cocoon' they need to experience life if your children come home from daycare/day mother and they have a torn shirt don't be upset be glad they were kids  Sibling rivalry - let children sort themselves out unless it turns too aggressive then parents should step in. Dads should get in touch with their feminine side and moms should get in touch with their masculine side... to understand kids better. Get a sand timer to get kids to make a game of daily tasks. Buy your child the toy gun after all if he does not have one he will use his hand and make a gun its ok and its part of growing up  Moms feel guilty for wor

Your children can not wait to open the (expensive, shiny) gifts under the Christmas tree.   How do you care without spoiling and raising a materialistic child? It's already a cliché.   Your child sometimes plays better with the box in which the gift came as with the gift itself.   Every Christmas we are overloaded (privileged) children with presents.   The latest mobile phone, iPad, Kindle ... or some of the movies that have been advertised on TV for months before Christmas.   Without it, your blood will be far away from his friends. The excitement builds up before Christmas.   Maybe you still have the right to keep the gift for your child secret until it's opened.   However, most children have already placed their orders at Ma and Pa by October.   (Letter to Father Crisis? Lately forgotten!) Children are getting younger and younger, after all, just Mamma and Daddy, who scratch around to get the right gift for everyone.) We sometimes raise selfish children, but we can te