Mamma Zerle's Bloggy

 Hier is on alweer met Loadshedding....Darem het Sebastian se foon 20gb data op so dis hoe ons rol! Ek vrae altwee my kids waaroor kan ek blog en raai wat se hulle Jody se - BTS , Sebastian se XBOX. Nou sit ons in my kamer met die boot se "battery"  sodat ons lig het , Daddy het gaan pool speel hy speel mos social league darem kom hy nie so laat by die huis nie , paar kerse aangesteek een in die kombuis en een in die badkamer en een in die voorhuis incase ons iets daar wil he of doen.  Ek en manlief het ook besluit ons gaan weer FB accounts maak na 2 jaar van geen social media FB omrede ons account gehack was en dit was paar maande van hel . Ek het ook weer kontak gemaak met van ons ou vriende was so happy om van hulle te hoor . Teresa En Billy ag julle ons het jul so gemis kan nie wag om julle weer te sien nie , gaan awesome wees. So nou het ek FB account , Tiktok, Snapchat en whats-up en dit is al. Dis amper kids se bed tyd en loadshedding nog aan die gang ai ons ou SA loop

 Well well i am sure all parents dread when the teenager stage comes along , in my case i love it as my daughter is such a good person , a good friend a good big sister and great help around the house and in my life . She is my best friend note she is only 15 years old but let me tell you wise beyond her years and so dedicated.  Look she has her days when she has a mood but dont we all? She is up early in the morning she gets dressed eats her breakfast and drinks her vits and i dont even have to ask her has she done this or that before we leave for school ... some days does not go so good when she has a off day . When she comes from school and i am working from the office , she will send me message that she is save at home and when i get home from the office the house is tidy and some of the supper is done so proud of this girl " young lady" she has become .  She can talk back dont get me wrong but she knows her boundries. She has gone thru her first heartbreak but how did sh

 Coffee ..... some like it black and bitter some like it white and sweet some like it with only hot milk others prefer to put milk in before the water ... so many options just like people . Some people are bitter till they taste the sugar of life which could be their life partner or their best job they have ever had or anything in life that makes life sweet. Some people are sweet till you upset them or crossed them then they get bitter just like the black bitter coffee. And some people are like the hot milk coffee that always just tries to do everything for everyone else and never thinks of themselves as the coffee always comes last ... and when you meet then person that drink coffee with milk first then the water then you have met the person with such a good heart . But lets get to coffee shops ... just like different coffee you get them too and i have had my fair share of good and bad coffee shops and you like know when you walk into the shop does these people take good care of their

 So this is a very hard subject to write on ... but here it goes When i give , it does not come with strings.  I'm not keeping track what you owe me.  When i give I choose to do so without ulterior motives.  I give and help because I am genuine, I give cause i know what it is like to be without. But sometimes people just take and take and you have no more to give and it feels like you wrong , but you were the person who got wronged . I am sure a lot of you reading here thinks o goodness i have been there and i am sure you have , we must stop doing what we doing so these people can stop and think what they have done and not doing for that matter . I always try and help were i can not financially but emotionally i can stand by people i can give good advice am strong like that even thou my tears run quickly but sometimes  ... i also need someone to be there for me.  My mom taught me you cant help someone that don't want to help themselves and if people take so much advantage that

 Hi Julle  So vandag het ek myself belowe ek sal blog oor wat weet ek nie want my mind is all over the place as julle weet wat ek bedoel ..... Lewe is hard genoeg en dan kry jy mense wat jou lewe nog harder wil maak ek gesels vandag met een van my vriendinne wat in die kaap bly en sy voel nes ek so overwhelemd is dit even 'n woord julle ? Ek en my man wil graag kyk en sien of ons iets kan doen vir ons en ons kinders se toekoms en dan dink ander mense net aan hulle self, want hulle dink alles gaan oor hulle en hulle lewe op die oomblik dink ek wat ek beter kan offer vir my kinders en wat kan ek doen om hulle 'n beter lewe kan gee en beter toekoms. Partykeer wonder ek of mense even notice dat ek stil geword het of glad nie meer eers praat nie ? Ek wonder soms dink mense of worry mense even oor my ? ek weet nie my mind is maar all over the show vandag het maar net gewonder ..... die voel meer soos dag boek inskrywing ag maar wat dit is my blog kan maar seker bietjie my marbles ver