When people take advantage of you ....

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 So this is a very hard subject to write on ... but here it goes

When i give , it does not come with strings.  I'm not keeping track what you owe me.  When i give I choose to do so without ulterior motives.  I give and help because I am genuine, I give cause i know what it is like to be without.

But sometimes people just take and take and you have no more to give and it feels like you wrong , but you were the person who got wronged .

I am sure a lot of you reading here thinks o goodness i have been there and i am sure you have , we must stop doing what we doing so these people can stop and think what they have done and not doing for that matter .

I always try and help were i can not financially but emotionally i can stand by people i can give good advice am strong like that even thou my tears run quickly but sometimes  ... i also need someone to be there for me.  My mom taught me you cant help someone that don't want to help themselves and if people take so much advantage that you feel drained at the end of the day get out now before it is too late  or you can put your foot down and say enough and say to them you will be there but only if you can see they have tried first .


Inspired by Sandra Dreyer 



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