Last couple of weeks....

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This past couple of weeks I have learned a thing or two from people that I think I really need to share ... remember these are my experiences not everyone will experience the same as me.

I have realized that even if you are always there for someone they still might not be there for you when you need them, or when you have a disagreement things will take time to return to normal or won't return to normal at all.

I have met new people that I felt like I have known for years and that have made me and my family feel so comfortable in our own skins that I never even thought would be possible as we are a strange bunch you know...lol.

People either are real to your face or pretend and I know a few that pretend, let me tell you I have never pretended that I like someone, if I don't like you my face can't lie, and the same as when I like you my face don't lie and if I don't like you we move on and we stay away from each other or out of each other way at least. 

I also don't keep a grudge like some but if you have wronged me I will forgive, forgetting will never happen that's just the way I was put together.  To me this has great meaning: the first time you make a mistake you deserve a second chance as everybody deserves that and everybody makes mistakes but the second and 3rd time it was a choice and then you know what you were doing is wrong you decided to do that so it was not a mistake it was a choice.

I really believe in everything happens for a reason and people come into your life to either teach you something and leave or they are there for the long haul. 

And the people I have met recently have taught me something I think a lot of people won't understand and this is a quote from a special friend :

A wise man once told me, "Family don't end in blood." But it doesn't start there, either. Family cares about you, not what you can do for them. Family's there through the good, the bad-all of it. They got your back, even when it hurts.

So i will leave you with that.


Toodles 





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